You didn't come here because everything's fine. But you also didn't come here because it's over.
Couples Therapy
Telehealth licensed in New York and Florida
You're not in crisis. You're in the thing before crisis — the place where everything is technically fine and also nothing feels right.
You love this person. You chose this person. And lately you've been wondering whether you're becoming the version of yourself you swore you'd never be with them.
The fights about dishes are not about dishes. You both know this. You just can't find the thing underneath.
Maybe you're queer and building a family in a world that didn't imagine you, and the weight of making every decision from scratch is wearing you both down.
Maybe you became parents and the person you fell in love with is still there somewhere but neither of you can find them.
Or maybe nothing's technically wrong — you're just exhausted by the distance between how things look and how they feel.
Sound familiar?
We'll meet together on video. I'll ask each of you what brought you here — not the polished version, but the real one.
I'll listen for patterns: what you're each protecting, what you're each asking for underneath the frustration, and what happens between you in the room. By the end of the first session, you'll have a clearer picture of what's actually going on — not just the fights, but the structure underneath them.
What the first session looks like
I'm trained in the Gottman Method and Imago Relationship Therapy — two of the most researched frameworks for understanding how couples get stuck and how they get unstuck. Underneath both, I'm psychodynamically trained, which means I take seriously that you chose each other for a reason, and that reason is usually connected to something older and deeper than this relationship.
In practice, that means I'm not teaching you communication skills and sending you home. I'm helping you understand why you keep having the same fight — what each of you is really asking for, and what makes it so hard to hear each other.
I won't play referee. I'm not here to decide who's right. I'm here to help you both see what you're each bringing into the room that the other one can't see yet.
My approach
Who I work with
Couples where the relationship is fine on paper but something essential has gone quiet.
Heterosexual and LGBTQ+ couples at any stage — dating, committed, married, figuring it out.
Couples where one person wanted to come and the other isn't sure yet.
Couples in long-term patterns they can see but can't stop: same fight, shutdown, distance.
Sessions
55 minutes
Weekly recommended,
especially at the start
Rate
$275 per session
I am out of network and will provide superbills for any out of network coverage
Location
Telehealth throughout New York and Florida